Attract The Right Girl: How To Find Your Perfect Girl And Make Her Chase You For A Relationship by Bryans Bruce

Author:Bryans, Bruce [Bryans, Bruce]
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub, mobi
Published: 2014-06-29T16:00:00+00:00

CHAPTER 4:

Setting The Foundations For A Long-Term Relationship

The Paradox of Attracting Romantic Relationships

There’s a paradox that exists when it comes to women and dating. It’s all about how guys who DON’T necessarily WANT a relationship sometimes end up attracting great women who want nothing more than to be with them indefinitely.

I’ve noticed this interesting paradox over the course of my dating life and watching my friends with their dating habits. It was a strange phenomenon to watch.

The more a guy (myself included) wanted a loving, committed relationship with a wonderful woman, the less potential mates I would meet. But whenever I simply got into the “groove” of living my life, enjoying myself, and working on personal development, opportunities for relationship bliss with lovely women just seemed to pop up out of nowhere.

It’s a strange phenomenon, and it’s something that works not only in your dating life, but in other areas of your life as well.

You may realize this yourself with some other area of your life. Sometimes the more relaxed you are about trying to accomplish something, the easier it is for you to bring it into reality.

I’m not talking about being lazy here, because putting in the work to attain anything worthwhile IS a necessity. But what I want you to think about is how your attitude plays a part in all of this.

Attitude is Everything

When it comes to dating and relating to women, your attitude is everything. Guys who project an attitude of confidence and independence are highly attractive to women because this signals that they’re not needy.

If you project an attitude of neediness and anxiousness to be in a relationship, you’ll scare quality women away because of your inner desire to “fill some hole” in your life with her. You’re coming from a scarcity mindset, and whether you’ve just met her or have been out with a woman a few times, she’ll soon catch wind of your neediness and she’ll be out of your life faster than you can say, “I can’t believe I’m going to die alone!”

Make no mistake; being anxious about anything will impede its attainment.

Whether it’s a great romantic relationship with a gorgeous young lady or that promotion that you want to land at work; an anxious and needy attitude can and will repel the things you want the most.

A Word on Confidence

A lot of guys think that confidence is everything. Well, confidence does play a major role in both getting a girlfriend AND keeping her happy. But confidence is simply a part of the bigger picture.

That bigger picture, as I’ve said before, is your attitude.

You see, as I’ve already mentioned, a woman, the kind of woman that you really want to be in a relationship with, wants to think that she’s worthy of being in a relationship with you. After she’s figured out that you’re worthy of her attention she actually wants to experience the challenge of catching you and keeping you all to herself.

A smart man knows how to show just enough

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